Learn the Rules for a Happy Marriage
By TDF. Filed in Marriage |
Although getting into a new marriage doesn’t carry the same level of
risk as getting into a new business, the statistics are still pretty
scary; you almost want to call them “sad-istics.” Yet, what choice do
we have but to get married and raise a family in spite of other
people’s past experiences? We are driven to do so. Our biology, our
psychology and even our sociology prods and pushes us; then we find the
right partner and nothing can stop us. People need guidelines for a
happy marriage.
If you think about it you might wonder why no attention is put on
the subject matter of relationships and marriage in school. After all,
not everyone needs algebra to get along in life but everyone needs to
understand relationships in order to have a fulfilling marriage.
Statistics are blind but they’re not dumb; they’re shouting at the top
of their lungs a message of caution and a suggestion to learn.
By reading my book Lessons For A Happy Marriage, everyone has the
ability to learn what it takes to have a happy and fulfilling marriage
for the rest of their life. Nobody needs to set sail on the ocean of
uncertainty filled with all sorts of dangers. When you don’t know how
to sail, even the tiniest wind can set you off course. On the other
hand when you have studied and understand the construction of your
marriage and the threatening elements that can upset your marriage you
will know exactly what to do; the stormiest seas will become mere
zephyrs.
You and your future soul mate deserve to have the happiest marriage
ever. You are divine children set in a fragrant garden filled with
fruits of love and harmony. Remember the following 4 points in order to
live in joy:
1) Marriage is not meant to be hard. Learn the rules and know the
tools so you are not doing the equivalent of using a hairbrush for a
hammer.
2) You are marrying the most important person in your life. Treat them better than you would the President of country.
3) Marriage is where you learn to love unconditionally; always improve your efforts.
4) “Fools argue, wise persons discuss.” Never argue with your spouse.
